Tameka cannot even come close to Chilli. If she was on the same floor as Chilli she still could not get on her level. She is bottom of the barrel trash. She got too many kids and has one on the way by another man. Usher she has some confessions for you. You messed up with the best thing you will ever have because everyone after her has looked like mutts. No actually pitbulls in the wrong skirt. Is Tameka a transexual?
jesand Says:
June 28th, 2007 8:43 AM
ok don't really know temeka but if you wanna compare on looks then chilli wins hands down. her and usher make a better couple then temeke not trying to bad mouth her just going on looks.
renee Says:
June 30th, 2007 7:09 PM
I think that Chilli look way better then Tameka. I don't know whats wrong with Usher he must be blind or something!
Super Chen Says:
July 3rd, 2007 6:32 PM
It may seem like Usher is on crack or needs to get "better glasses" but the truth of the matter is that LOOKS can only go so far!!! I don't know any of these people (USHER, CHILLI, TAMEKA) however, I can tell you one thing. Looks are not everything> Tameka is cute; I could see if she looked like a rat or something. Her features are cute. And when a man wants to marry for love, best believe-- the winner is the one who completes him on all levels. Not just the physcial.
sandy Says:
July 4th, 2007 5:04 PM
he can do so much better. you should not let anyone come bewteen you and mother
sheena Says:
July 6th, 2007 9:10 AM
It's true that Tameka isn't as attractive as Chili, and it's true Tameka has 3 children, recently divorced, and reports are flying about her not being a good mom. BUT, Usher has to make his own decision. Apparantley he has a bond with Tameka that he didn't have or either lost with Chili at one point. Just wish them the best and put it down.
justine Says:
July 8th, 2007 2:21 AM
Usher u stupid as hell!! what is wrong with u
Tameka is not attractive AT ALL!!! i dnt knw if she did something to make u have feeling 4 her but all i knw is that the both of u make a bad couple. I think that u should be engaged to chilli instead of this man face lady she does not fit in with the flow
BABYGIRLINMIAMI Says:
July 10th, 2007 12:14 PM
It seems we can all judge some one from the outside without looking in-I know this is very Oprahesque-but maybe he has lokked past her looks and really is in love with the person and I take my hat off to a person who can do that - we all know looks fade but friendships and real love they can last a lifetime - give them a break!!!!!!
Celathia Says:
July 16th, 2007 9:36 PM
go with your heart usher your #1fan
Sharon Says:
July 20th, 2007 11:11 AM
Love is blind, but turn your back on people who helped you to get to the level that you are now at his ridiculous. No matter how much you love someone, your mother is always your number one priority. NO ONE should ever be able to turn you against your mother or father no matter what. Believe me when mommy is gone you are truly a lost child no matter how old, how much money or any other worldly posession you may own no one can replace her anf think twice about turning true friends away that has been there from the beginning you may need them again
Creatorgoddess Says:
July 25th, 2007 1:28 AM
LISTEN!!!!!!....leave those two men alone and let them love each other..
Steven Says:
July 25th, 2007 11:57 AM
My thing is you love who you love and if thats where the boys heart is so be it, but damn dog three kids and divorced you got women world wide that long for your attention I'm sure you could do better than that don't fall for the sad stories just get the hell out a dodge ya feel me!!
Mikki (F.S.A.D) Says:
July 26th, 2007 6:45 PM
Ok, people. Let's get off of the hater-aid. Looks do not always play a part in relationships. Usher is not immature, nor is he blind. The "man" is almost 30 years old, and I know that somewhere in his life he began to make conscience decisions on his own. We never know what goes/went on behind closed doors. Personally, I would rather have BMW (Black Man Working) and sincerely loves me than ROB (Rich Old Bastar*) that doesn't give a darn about me. Usher if that is where your heart is then do your thing. Make sure no matter who you marry it will be for the right reasons. Always, at least, "listen" to your mother's opinion. Tameke, make sure you love him. I pray you are thinking of your kids more than yourself. And if you do decide to marry him, make sure it is for the right reasons. God bless us All.
BLACK PEOPLE STOP Says:
July 27th, 2007 9:03 PM
BLACK PEOPLE ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST HATING CONIVING PEOPLE ON EARTH. WE ENJOY PUTTING EACH OTHER DOWN INSTEAD OF LIFTING EACH OTHER UP. THERE IS NO REASON FOR ALL THE THINGS THAT ARE BEING SAID ABOUT USHER AND HIS SOON TO BE WIFE. EVERYONE IS SO STUCK ON APPEARANCE AND INSIST THAT USHER SHOULD BE WITH CHILI CAUSE SHE'S MORE BEAUTIFUL. IN CASE YALL HAVENT NOTICED THOSE TYPE OF PROFILE-HOLLYWOOD MARRIAGES ALWAYS ENDS IN DIVORCE. JUST BECAUSE YALL ARE FANS OF USHERS MUSIC DOESNT MEAN YALL HAVE A RIGHT TO HIS PERSONAL LIFE. AT LEAST HE'S MARRYING A WOMAN OF COLOR, A CHOCOLATE ONE AT THAT. I HOPE USHER CONTINUE TO DO HIS THING AND BE SUCCESSFUL AND I WISH HE AND HIS WIFE A HAPPY MARRIAGE. WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER LET NO MAN TEAR APART. MANY BLESSING TO USHER. THANK GOD THERE IS A SUCCESSFUL BLACK MAN OUT THERE WILLING TO SETTLE DOWN!!!
chris Says:
July 28th, 2007 3:23 PM
I think she (Tameka) is a lovely young women! I am especially glad that he hasn't lost his taste for women of color that is so often the case with successful AA men. While she would not have been my first pick for Usher, for the obvious reasons, I'm not the one to make the choice for him. Its not easy trying to find that special someone, I think even harder when you're as successful as he is. ADVICE-Know yourself, know what you want in a partner and accept nothing less, TAKE YOUR TIME!!!!
becky Says:
July 28th, 2007 4:44 PM
i am sorry but TAMEKA looks like a man she looks old like my mother i dont know what usher sees in her but he need to wake up and smell the coffee open the blinds to get better look at TAMEKA face this girl or dude can not stand up to chili no way no how dump her ass and get something better oh yeah by the way usher go out and get a dna test on the baby dont want to pay for some other man baby until its 21 years old
teewalk Says:
July 29th, 2007 11:38 AM
thats not tameka.......she looks much older than that an uglier...chili is a natural beauty with real hair
melissa brown Says:
July 30th, 2007 10:28 AM
I think usher has lost it, that woman is only out for what she can get any time you dont want YOUr OWN MAMA AT YOUR WEDDING ( YOU AIN'T ABOUT S*&#) He should have made sure that she was on something before started smashing.
But weather they marry or not she still has it made she having his first born SHE'S IN THERE FOR LIFE!!
Vet Says:
July 30th, 2007 1:10 PM
Tameka is a beautiful woman... Usher should be so lucky...and she doesn't look old. Ever wonder why Usher dates "older" women? Did it ever occur to anyone that he just may be older than what he claims?
Towanda Says:
July 31st, 2007 6:49 PM
This is how I see it chilli might be prettier and it is always nice that the woman who would follow would look better. However we dont know these people usher is not what I would call fine or aight... He is not and angle and nor are the women he dates and if he want to date older women then whatever. There are a lot of women out there that cant get a man because they have kid. But there are a lot of men out there with 10 kids yet the can always get somebody.
The point is we should not care and it is his choice as to what kind a woman he wants, looks and personality.
TNT Says:
August 1st, 2007 12:48 PM
I really believe that Usher is making a bad decision. We have heard nothing but good things about Chili, and nothing but bad things about Tameka. If you ask me Usher does not deserve Chili, because he had his chance and we all remember how he messed that up. Chili could do so much better. We already know she is a better mother then Tameka. If Usher wants to marry Tameka then WHATEVER. I just hope both can be better better parents then they are adults. Good Luck Chili, and Good Luck to that unborn child.
starla Says:
August 1st, 2007 5:28 PM
okay I agree with the majority on this one . Usher can do sooooooo!!!! much better. He needs to open his eyes and realize that she couldn't or wouldn't be able to hold onto him if she wasn't carrying his child(so they say). He needs to see what is happening.Usher has said how much his family means to him so why be with someone who is trying to tear it apart. His mother loves him and only wants whats best for him. I also think he is trying so hard to do right by his baby ,but puting his own happiness aside. I don't think that he should try to marry her because she is pregnant. That should not be the only reason to marry someone. Usher needsto see that she is older and knows the game and is manipulating him into marrying her . She doesn't want him just the recognition that she is his wife and mother of his first born. She just trying to make Chili jealous. If he was going to marry her why hasn't he married her already. I think he is wrong for not inviting his mother to his wedding,what kind of man does that. I wouldn't of went either if I was invited at he last minute. I think he should look at the kind of person that he has become because of her. We miss the od Uher and want him back. STILL YOUR #1 FAN.STARLA
starla Says:
August 1st, 2007 5:36 PM
OKAY I THINK THAT USHER IS MAKING A BIG MISTAKE. HE SHOULD DUMP THAT MANISH LOOKING WOMAN AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS CLASSY AND RESPECT HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS MOTHER. WHY IS HE TURNING HIS MOTHER AWAY WHEN SHE SHOULD BE HAPPY ABOUT HER SO GETTING MARRIED. AND I ALSO THINK THAT IF THAT WAS HIS BABY HIS MOTHER WOULDN'T BE AGAINST THEM GETTING MARRIED( THINK ABOUT IT PEOPLE).I THINK THAT HE SHOULD MOVE ON AND BE GLAD HE FOUND OUT ABOUT HER BEFORE HE TIED THE KNOT.USHER BABY MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO HAS THE SAME VSLUES AS YOU DO.
beyonce Says:
August 3rd, 2007 6:13 AM
usher whats wrong with u man. tameka is gold-digging slut. i know it & u know it
him Says:
August 3rd, 2007 11:02 PM
the bitch is ugly!!!
one she jus want hime 4 his money and i think he can find wayyy better!!!! u cand tell she a rebound and she look like a man!!!
June 14th, 2007 3:03 PM
Tameka cannot even come close to Chilli. If she was on the same floor as Chilli she still could not get on her level. She is bottom of the barrel trash. She got too many kids and has one on the way by another man. Usher she has some confessions for you. You messed up with the best thing you will ever have because everyone after her has looked like mutts. No actually pitbulls in the wrong skirt. Is Tameka a transexual?
June 28th, 2007 8:43 AM
ok don't really know temeka but if you wanna compare on looks then chilli wins hands down. her and usher make a better couple then temeke not trying to bad mouth her just going on looks.
June 30th, 2007 7:09 PM
I think that Chilli look way better then Tameka. I don't know whats wrong with Usher he must be blind or something!
July 3rd, 2007 6:32 PM
It may seem like Usher is on crack or needs to get "better glasses" but the truth of the matter is that LOOKS can only go so far!!! I don't know any of these people (USHER, CHILLI, TAMEKA) however, I can tell you one thing. Looks are not everything> Tameka is cute; I could see if she looked like a rat or something. Her features are cute. And when a man wants to marry for love, best believe-- the winner is the one who completes him on all levels. Not just the physcial.
July 4th, 2007 5:04 PM
he can do so much better. you should not let anyone come bewteen you and mother
July 6th, 2007 9:10 AM
It's true that Tameka isn't as attractive as Chili, and it's true Tameka has 3 children, recently divorced, and reports are flying about her not being a good mom. BUT, Usher has to make his own decision. Apparantley he has a bond with Tameka that he didn't have or either lost with Chili at one point. Just wish them the best and put it down.
July 8th, 2007 2:21 AM
Usher u stupid as hell!! what is wrong with u
Tameka is not attractive AT ALL!!! i dnt knw if she did something to make u have feeling 4 her but all i knw is that the both of u make a bad couple. I think that u should be engaged to chilli instead of this man face lady she does not fit in with the flow
July 10th, 2007 12:14 PM
It seems we can all judge some one from the outside without looking in-I know this is very Oprahesque-but maybe he has lokked past her looks and really is in love with the person and I take my hat off to a person who can do that - we all know looks fade but friendships and real love they can last a lifetime - give them a break!!!!!!
July 16th, 2007 9:36 PM
go with your heart usher your #1fan
July 20th, 2007 11:11 AM
Love is blind, but turn your back on people who helped you to get to the level that you are now at his ridiculous. No matter how much you love someone, your mother is always your number one priority. NO ONE should ever be able to turn you against your mother or father no matter what. Believe me when mommy is gone you are truly a lost child no matter how old, how much money or any other worldly posession you may own no one can replace her anf think twice about turning true friends away that has been there from the beginning you may need them again
July 25th, 2007 1:28 AM
LISTEN!!!!!!....leave those two men alone and let them love each other..
July 25th, 2007 11:57 AM
My thing is you love who you love and if thats where the boys heart is so be it, but damn dog three kids and divorced you got women world wide that long for your attention I'm sure you could do better than that don't fall for the sad stories just get the hell out a dodge ya feel me!!
July 26th, 2007 6:45 PM
Ok, people. Let's get off of the hater-aid. Looks do not always play a part in relationships. Usher is not immature, nor is he blind. The "man" is almost 30 years old, and I know that somewhere in his life he began to make conscience decisions on his own. We never know what goes/went on behind closed doors. Personally, I would rather have BMW (Black Man Working) and sincerely loves me than ROB (Rich Old Bastar*) that doesn't give a darn about me. Usher if that is where your heart is then do your thing. Make sure no matter who you marry it will be for the right reasons. Always, at least, "listen" to your mother's opinion. Tameke, make sure you love him. I pray you are thinking of your kids more than yourself. And if you do decide to marry him, make sure it is for the right reasons. God bless us All.
July 27th, 2007 9:03 PM
BLACK PEOPLE ESPECIALLY BLACK WOMEN ARE THE MOST HATING CONIVING PEOPLE ON EARTH. WE ENJOY PUTTING EACH OTHER DOWN INSTEAD OF LIFTING EACH OTHER UP. THERE IS NO REASON FOR ALL THE THINGS THAT ARE BEING SAID ABOUT USHER AND HIS SOON TO BE WIFE. EVERYONE IS SO STUCK ON APPEARANCE AND INSIST THAT USHER SHOULD BE WITH CHILI CAUSE SHE'S MORE BEAUTIFUL. IN CASE YALL HAVENT NOTICED THOSE TYPE OF PROFILE-HOLLYWOOD MARRIAGES ALWAYS ENDS IN DIVORCE. JUST BECAUSE YALL ARE FANS OF USHERS MUSIC DOESNT MEAN YALL HAVE A RIGHT TO HIS PERSONAL LIFE. AT LEAST HE'S MARRYING A WOMAN OF COLOR, A CHOCOLATE ONE AT THAT. I HOPE USHER CONTINUE TO DO HIS THING AND BE SUCCESSFUL AND I WISH HE AND HIS WIFE A HAPPY MARRIAGE. WHAT GOD HAS JOINED TOGETHER LET NO MAN TEAR APART. MANY BLESSING TO USHER. THANK GOD THERE IS A SUCCESSFUL BLACK MAN OUT THERE WILLING TO SETTLE DOWN!!!
July 28th, 2007 3:23 PM
I think she (Tameka) is a lovely young women! I am especially glad that he hasn't lost his taste for women of color that is so often the case with successful AA men. While she would not have been my first pick for Usher, for the obvious reasons, I'm not the one to make the choice for him. Its not easy trying to find that special someone, I think even harder when you're as successful as he is. ADVICE-Know yourself, know what you want in a partner and accept nothing less, TAKE YOUR TIME!!!!
July 28th, 2007 4:44 PM
i am sorry but TAMEKA looks like a man she looks old like my mother i dont know what usher sees in her but he need to wake up and smell the coffee open the blinds to get better look at TAMEKA face this girl or dude can not stand up to chili no way no how dump her ass and get something better oh yeah by the way usher go out and get a dna test on the baby dont want to pay for some other man baby until its 21 years old
July 29th, 2007 11:38 AM
thats not tameka.......she looks much older than that an uglier...chili is a natural beauty with real hair
July 30th, 2007 10:28 AM
I think usher has lost it, that woman is only out for what she can get any time you dont want YOUr OWN MAMA AT YOUR WEDDING ( YOU AIN'T ABOUT S*&#) He should have made sure that she was on something before started smashing.
But weather they marry or not she still has it made she having his first born SHE'S IN THERE FOR LIFE!!
July 30th, 2007 1:10 PM
Tameka is a beautiful woman... Usher should be so lucky...and she doesn't look old. Ever wonder why Usher dates "older" women? Did it ever occur to anyone that he just may be older than what he claims?
July 31st, 2007 6:49 PM
This is how I see it chilli might be prettier and it is always nice that the woman who would follow would look better. However we dont know these people usher is not what I would call fine or aight... He is not and angle and nor are the women he dates and if he want to date older women then whatever. There are a lot of women out there that cant get a man because they have kid. But there are a lot of men out there with 10 kids yet the can always get somebody.
The point is we should not care and it is his choice as to what kind a woman he wants, looks and personality.
August 1st, 2007 12:48 PM
I really believe that Usher is making a bad decision. We have heard nothing but good things about Chili, and nothing but bad things about Tameka. If you ask me Usher does not deserve Chili, because he had his chance and we all remember how he messed that up. Chili could do so much better. We already know she is a better mother then Tameka. If Usher wants to marry Tameka then WHATEVER. I just hope both can be better better parents then they are adults. Good Luck Chili, and Good Luck to that unborn child.
August 1st, 2007 5:28 PM
okay I agree with the majority on this one . Usher can do sooooooo!!!! much better. He needs to open his eyes and realize that she couldn't or wouldn't be able to hold onto him if she wasn't carrying his child(so they say). He needs to see what is happening.Usher has said how much his family means to him so why be with someone who is trying to tear it apart. His mother loves him and only wants whats best for him. I also think he is trying so hard to do right by his baby ,but puting his own happiness aside. I don't think that he should try to marry her because she is pregnant. That should not be the only reason to marry someone. Usher needsto see that she is older and knows the game and is manipulating him into marrying her . She doesn't want him just the recognition that she is his wife and mother of his first born. She just trying to make Chili jealous. If he was going to marry her why hasn't he married her already. I think he is wrong for not inviting his mother to his wedding,what kind of man does that. I wouldn't of went either if I was invited at he last minute. I think he should look at the kind of person that he has become because of her. We miss the od Uher and want him back. STILL YOUR #1 FAN.STARLA
August 1st, 2007 5:36 PM
OKAY I THINK THAT USHER IS MAKING A BIG MISTAKE. HE SHOULD DUMP THAT MANISH LOOKING WOMAN AND FIND SOMEONE WHO IS CLASSY AND RESPECT HIS RELATIONSHIP WITH HIS MOTHER. WHY IS HE TURNING HIS MOTHER AWAY WHEN SHE SHOULD BE HAPPY ABOUT HER SO GETTING MARRIED. AND I ALSO THINK THAT IF THAT WAS HIS BABY HIS MOTHER WOULDN'T BE AGAINST THEM GETTING MARRIED( THINK ABOUT IT PEOPLE).I THINK THAT HE SHOULD MOVE ON AND BE GLAD HE FOUND OUT ABOUT HER BEFORE HE TIED THE KNOT.USHER BABY MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO HAS THE SAME VSLUES AS YOU DO.
August 3rd, 2007 6:13 AM
usher whats wrong with u man. tameka is gold-digging slut. i know it & u know it
August 3rd, 2007 11:02 PM
the bitch is ugly!!!
one she jus want hime 4 his money and i think he can find wayyy better!!!! u cand tell she a rebound and she look like a man!!!