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July 2nd, 2008 10:48 PM
Let those two D-listers have each other, they are both disgusting on the inside AND outside, and they are not together for the right reasons. He's probably going to leave Tori for that scuba instructor anyway ;)
July 4th, 2008 1:22 PM
Tori and Dean did things ALMOST right. They fessed up to the relationship with their partners right away and moved on. Would it have been better to wait until the divorce(s) were finalized? Yes, but life isn't always that tidy.
July 6th, 2008 8:48 PM
I agree with super z.
July 11th, 2008 6:30 PM
My take on this situation after watching T&D's shows and read Tori's book......is that they truly do love each other. I had my husband of 10 years (together for 16 years) and 3 children later.....leave me for a younger woman and is now married to her with 2 kids. I was in your boat, so I don't want anyone here to think I don't know what it feels like to be dumped by your longtime spouse. My ex and his new wife hate each other, but remain married...so I laugh at their situation and think about how great of a husband I have now. With Mary Jo, I feel terribly for her and her children. In life however, we sometimes do meet a "soul mate" and while I think adultery sucks.....they didn't commit adultery just to have a fling. It is apparent to me that they just adore one another. Dean seems like a very decent, loving husband and father. Tori the same. They just met each other at "inopportune" times in their lives. They admit what they did was wrong, but they had to follow their hearts. My ex followed his "you know what", not his heart. Now he is paying the price for that bad move. I don't think Dean is going to do that to Tori or vice versa. That is my two cents from observing the situation.
July 12th, 2008 4:21 PM
I just watched the Tori and Dean TV episode where Dean farts while he and Tori are in bed - the three loudest farts I have ever heard - and laughed. Tori was not phased.
He seems so classless, and Mary Jo, looking back, I hope you feel well rid of him.
July 15th, 2008 5:58 PM
Dear Mary Jo,
I became the single mother of an 8 month old baby after having a similar situation to yours. I can tell you that I thank GOD for what I've been through (heart ache and all). It's made me the person that I am today. Now a mother of two beautiful kids, I am happily married and VERY HAPPILY DIVORCED. Let someone else deal with that heart ache.
I watched one of their episodes and Tori couldn't have said it better. She told him that she will always wonder when the next TORI will come and steel him from her. That is something that they will have to deal with forever. That relationship will never have full trust or peace of mind.
Best of luck to you and the kids. God Bless.
July 19th, 2008 1:39 PM
Thanks for the split.. I just started watching Tori and Dean and I am hooked.. Its hilarious. If their relationship does not last oh well..At least I had a good laugh.
July 19th, 2008 6:20 PM
I didn't know who Dean M was before this whole thing surfaced in the tabloids. I don't know any of their relationships well enough to judge them. But to be involved with someone while they are married, especially with children, is VERY disturbing. I had to chuckled when I insecure Tori was about Dean's Scuba instructor. It will ALWAYS be in the back of her mind. By the way, there is nothing honorable about having sex on the 1st date. Really, what is one's moral in the 21th century?? I feel for Mary Jo and the children. I will think twice when it comes to Tori's merchandise or show from now on. Btw, Mary Jo looks very sophisticated, intelligent and classy. THere goes something that money can't buy!!
July 21st, 2008 10:03 PM
Just on the superficial level of beauty which it seems is a basic criteria in Hollywood, you are 500% more beautiful. She is younger, that is true, and that in Hollywood terms that is another basic criteria but hey, this is a no brainer, you have it all over her, she is so fake, fake, fake, your ex is too, they are so phoney and icky together, discussing details of their sex life on TV, how utterly repulsive they are...Also, you have to wonder, their whole relatonship is based on this passionate love, nothing could stand in its way, soul mates, etc. -- what happens to these 2 bozos when the bloom fades and they still have to maintain the pretense of passionate, crazy love -- what an effort this must be and how boring. . He is such a slimeball, I agree with other writers that you are well rid of him, good riddance to bad rubbish.
July 22nd, 2008 11:08 PM
Hi,
Just a small town guy, but Tori and Dean are after what feels good for the moment. You are much more attractive and will find someone better than a slime ball like Dean. Any person who leaves his children and wife like he did is slime. Good luck!!!
Thanks,
Jack
Knox, Indiana
July 26th, 2008 9:59 PM
What did Dean mean recently when he said he missed Jack? What about the little girl? He misses his son. He wants his son Jack to come to California to see him and spend time with him. What about the girl? He has 2 children with Mary Jo. He got divorced and forgot a child? That is disturbing. That poor little girl.
July 30th, 2008 3:55 AM
Well I am a X-FAN of Tori and Dean INNLUST whoops inn luv.
I had no idea Dean a scum bucket. I seen on the show where he was flirting with the scuba teacher. Then i kinda thought he was a poser. He will do to her what he did to you. But at least you have a wonderful life with your kids and a real job and you dont have to support a dead beat man like Tori does. Not to mention your ass would make Tori a sunday face. SHE IS UGLY NOT CUTE NOT FUNNY NOT NOTHING. Her own mother see's how she is and will not give her the time of day. Now that is sad. Dean is using her like all her poser friends. Her pot head friend is even better looking than her. They call the paps on themselfs so they will look like celbs when they go out. She is lazy and has no talent. The only good that come from her is her kids Liam is a cute sweet lil baby. I hope his daddy does him better than he did his practic kids Jack and the lil girl he walked out on.They both need to grow up she is like 35 and still leaning on her dads name.90210 is over thank gosh just remember she was the fugly one on the show.
August 2nd, 2008 6:00 PM
Brilliant!
August 8th, 2008 9:41 PM
You are super hot....way hotter than Tori...way, way hotter! Dean just went to her to further his career. I'm sure they'll be divorced in 2-3 more years.
August 10th, 2008 3:37 PM
Omg people need to stop acting like victoms and learn to take care of the themselves. There are millions of single mothers all over the world. My mother was a single mother and she made it on her own because she was taught to be independent and not to depend on anyone else but herself. Thats the problem today we teach our daughters to be co-dependent on our men. Why do you think we have some many girlfriends and wives being physically abused day in and day out? Yes what Dean did was prolly not nice, but look at it this way if he's not happy how is he supposed to make Mary Jo and their 2 kids happy. I think it's better to have atleast one happy home for a child to go to. I speak of this from expiernce I was "the other woman" for 1 1/2 years it was hard becuase we wanted to be together desperatly! But he didn't want to leave his kids. No marriage should make you feel "obligated" to stay. This is why people should not get married just because your going to have baby. It always leads to trouble! I commend Tori and Dean you to are so cute together. The only thing I'm jealous of is that Dean left Mary Jo after 3 days I had to wait 1 1/2. All you dumped B****s need to get over it and move on with all the time you've wasted bashing this happy couple in blogs you could have been looking for someone else. I word to the wise " Jealousy is a sickness b****s you should get help for it"
August 11th, 2008 4:28 PM
I am happy for Tori and Dean, love their show. Life goes and whats done is done. I was cheated on and I thought what hurts us only makes us stronger. I never let that man who hurt me so deeply, see my pain because I got over it.
August 14th, 2008 6:52 PM
Mary Jo...first & foremost...you are a stunning beauty. And I realize when I look at you that horrible things like this can happen to anyone. I too fell deeply in love with someone whom I trusted with my whole heart. He called me 20 times a day to tell me how much he loved me. He did anything for me. He set out again and again to prove how much he loved me. I started noticing after our 3rd year that something was changing. He dumped me in our 5th year together. Right after I was advised to have major surgery. It is 3 1/2 years later and the pain has lessened but the memory and betrayal is still there. I wished I could have handled it with the grace and dignity that you did but I lashed out in anger after family members revealed that a "new" woman showed up shortly after our breakup. Could have been a coincidence except the new girlfriend like telling stories of things they had done when it was obvious to the family that he and I were still a couple. I still receive phone calls from the family of how they really dislike this new woman and what a mistake he made. To end this story, I am engaged to a wonderful man. I know that things will never be like they were with me...I will never again allow myself the comfort of feeling totally safe and trusting. It is a shame what immoral people can strip away from you. But given enough time and healing...we can endure and move forward. I too have watch Tori and Dean's show. I have no respect for either of them. Move on and enjoy the love of another. The fact that you adopted that little baby as a single parent makes you one amazing and classy woman. Someone will find you and thank God for every day of his life with you.
August 15th, 2008 3:22 PM
I know it is horrible that Dean cheated and left Mary but he loves her kids and his two new kids with Tori. Tori and Dean love each other and nobody should be saying how horrible they are. When people are famous their being watched every second of their lives and theres a lot of stress on them. Give them a break. Cheating happens to almost everyone it's not right but learn how to forgive and forget. It doesn't give people the right to cheat but it's their choice and if they want to make a mistake then let then make and learn. Everyone can learn by doing something bad. I feel bad for Mary but she will find somebody that loves her even more. There human beings just stop picking sides. Nobody will get the whole story and truth.
August 21st, 2008 3:43 PM
You are a very smart good looking women who did not deserve what you got from that dead beat the show he is on is a joke you will be happier now he is gone i am going to buy your book. Eveyone knows he is a joke any way he married one Good Luck
August 22nd, 2008 12:04 AM
Tori and Dean are perfect for each other because they love each other more than anyone can think. They have two cute kids that they love. Mary Jo will find a new man in her life. She should get over it. Tori is beautiful and her and Deans kids will be adorable!! With all the stress going on I think they are doing great. TORI and DEAN are NOT BAD PEOPLE.
Women who say they are bad people say that because they don't have lives of their own. SO stop judging them!
August 22nd, 2008 12:07 AM
THIS IS SOOOO STUPID!!!! STOP HATING TORI AND DEAN. THEY ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE. I THINK ALL OF YOU GUYS NEED A LIFE!!!
August 29th, 2008 12:10 AM
I'm sorry Mary Jo was hurt and that Tori's ex was hurt..but Tori and Dean are Twinflame soulmates...they never ''wanted'' to hurt their ex's...they just fell deeply in love...like me and my husband...this also happend to Tom Hanks. He was married when he fell in love with Rita Wilson...and they have been very happily married for years now! It happens in life. I believe that Mary Jo will find her other half, as Dean has.
September 1st, 2008 6:17 PM
Hello,
I have never been married and don't want to be. I like the single life. But I have been cheated on and yes, it hurts whether there are kids involved or not. Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
But unlike what a lot of you said, I don't agree that the cheater necessarily lacks integrity. Come on people .... when I am faced with a person I am undeniably attracted to, married or not, I'd wanna pull down my pants immediately. It has nothing to do with integrity but has a lot to do with my emotions and yes, being human. Cheating is an age-long cycle that has been happening long before any of us was born and this cycle will continue.
I wasn't a fan of Tori Spelling but I admit that out of curiosity, I have been watching the Tori and Dean show and I am surprised that I actually like the show and them. They do truly appear to be happy and so in love. Isn't that what matters? Yes, I feel sorry for Mary Jo and any person who goes through divorce because of another person involved but isn't there a saying.... if you love something, set it free ...... Besides, having married parents that are truly happy and in-love is much better than having married parents that are unhappy and so NOT in-love but staying together for the sake of the kids. When people stay together for the sake of the children, arguments tend to happen, treating each other badly is evident, cheating happens anyway, etc. That's not the kind of environment children should be immersed in.
Mary Jo needs to move on. I question her motive of contemplating (if she hasn't already)to write a book about it. If she did, she is certainly wanting to capitalize on her bad fate. There is somthing that needs to be kept private and if she writes a book about it, then I would say greed will come to mind.
So for Mary Jo and those of you who has gone this experience, I am sorry. But isn't it time that you all move on? Easier said than done, yes.... but continuously talking about it just delays the healing and getting over it process.
September 11th, 2008 1:31 AM
For those of you who think Dean is a creep and Tori is a homewrecker, PUHLEAZZE...... COME DOWN FROM THAT SELF-RIGHTEOUS SOAP BOX YOU ARE ON.
Agreed, they cheated while they were both married to others but can you honestly say you won't do the same if you find someone you are devastatingly attracted to and suddenly you realize that you want to spend your life with this person and this person feels the same way? If you're answer is no, you really are delusional.
Just because a person is married doesn't mean that attraction towards the opposite sex no longer exists. True, they may not act on it, but this is a temporary inaction until they meet someone they just can't resist.
I have been married for 9 yrs. I love my wife dearly and have never cheated on her, yet and as far as I know, she hasn't cheated on me as well. May be because we are deeply in love with each other, or may be because we're afraid of the consequences, or may be, we just haven't found the person worth cheating with. But you will never hear one of us say that it will never happen.
My wife and I talked about the Dean and Tori fiasco. We both feel that they are wonderful people. There are many wonderful people out there, who at the moment of weakness, gave in to temptation. It doesn't change the fact that they are still wonderful people. It just means that they are wonderful people who made mistakes. In the Tori and Dean case, it appears, so far, they do not believe they made a mistake. I congratulate them and wish them well.
Mary Jo and to all of you who think Tori and Dean and the rest of the population who did and do what Tori and Dean did, GET A LIFE!!!!!
October 16th, 2008 11:23 PM
Mary Jo,
Get over yourself. Dean found the love of his life and you just feel used. Have you watched their show???? THEY DO REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER !!!! go out and get a life of your own, shut up and move on. Crying won't solve anyone's problems.