Omg people need to stop acting like victoms and learn to take care of the themselves. There are millions of single mothers all over the world. My mother was a single mother and she made it on her own because she was taught to be independent and not to depend on anyone else but herself. Thats the problem today we teach our daughters to be co-dependent on our men. Why do you think we have some many girlfriends and wives being physically abused day in and day out? Yes what Dean did was prolly not nice, but look at it this way if he's not happy how is he supposed to make Mary Jo and their 2 kids happy. I think it's better to have atleast one happy home for a child to go to. I speak of this from expiernce I was "the other woman" for 1 1/2 years it was hard becuase we wanted to be together desperatly! But he didn't want to leave his kids. No marriage should make you feel "obligated" to stay. This is why people should not get married just because your going to have baby. It always leads to trouble! I commend Tori and Dean you to are so cute together. The only thing I'm jealous of is that Dean left Mary Jo after 3 days I had to wait 1 1/2. All you dumped B****s need to get over it and move on with all the time you've wasted bashing this happy couple in blogs you could have been looking for someone else. I word to the wise " Jealousy is a sickness b****s you should get help for it"
Nancy Martin Says:
August 11th, 2008 4:28 PM
I am happy for Tori and Dean, love their show. Life goes and whats done is done. I was cheated on and I thought what hurts us only makes us stronger. I never let that man who hurt me so deeply, see my pain because I got over it.
Maria Says:
August 14th, 2008 6:52 PM
Mary Jo...first & foremost...you are a stunning beauty. And I realize when I look at you that horrible things like this can happen to anyone. I too fell deeply in love with someone whom I trusted with my whole heart. He called me 20 times a day to tell me how much he loved me. He did anything for me. He set out again and again to prove how much he loved me. I started noticing after our 3rd year that something was changing. He dumped me in our 5th year together. Right after I was advised to have major surgery. It is 3 1/2 years later and the pain has lessened but the memory and betrayal is still there. I wished I could have handled it with the grace and dignity that you did but I lashed out in anger after family members revealed that a "new" woman showed up shortly after our breakup. Could have been a coincidence except the new girlfriend like telling stories of things they had done when it was obvious to the family that he and I were still a couple. I still receive phone calls from the family of how they really dislike this new woman and what a mistake he made. To end this story, I am engaged to a wonderful man. I know that things will never be like they were with me...I will never again allow myself the comfort of feeling totally safe and trusting. It is a shame what immoral people can strip away from you. But given enough time and healing...we can endure and move forward. I too have watch Tori and Dean's show. I have no respect for either of them. Move on and enjoy the love of another. The fact that you adopted that little baby as a single parent makes you one amazing and classy woman. Someone will find you and thank God for every day of his life with you.
Desiree Says:
August 15th, 2008 3:22 PM
I know it is horrible that Dean cheated and left Mary but he loves her kids and his two new kids with Tori. Tori and Dean love each other and nobody should be saying how horrible they are. When people are famous their being watched every second of their lives and theres a lot of stress on them. Give them a break. Cheating happens to almost everyone it's not right but learn how to forgive and forget. It doesn't give people the right to cheat but it's their choice and if they want to make a mistake then let then make and learn. Everyone can learn by doing something bad. I feel bad for Mary but she will find somebody that loves her even more. There human beings just stop picking sides. Nobody will get the whole story and truth.
sweetswede Says:
August 19th, 2008 12:02 PM
I agree with Julia Brown. How do you just forget about a child? Why agree to adopt if you're marriage was "shaky"?
Dean really is a slimeball; it's sad that one whole episode of their moranic TV show(which I can't stand to watch anymore)had to be dedicated to "Deans missing Jack".What, were they afraid his assholeness was becoming a little too obvious...?
judee42plus Says:
August 21st, 2008 3:43 PM
You are a very smart good looking women who did not deserve what you got from that dead beat the show he is on is a joke you will be happier now he is gone i am going to buy your book. Eveyone knows he is a joke any way he married one Good Luck
Desiree Says:
August 22nd, 2008 12:04 AM
Tori and Dean are perfect for each other because they love each other more than anyone can think. They have two cute kids that they love. Mary Jo will find a new man in her life. She should get over it. Tori is beautiful and her and Deans kids will be adorable!! With all the stress going on I think they are doing great. TORI and DEAN are NOT BAD PEOPLE.
Women who say they are bad people say that because they don't have lives of their own. SO stop judging them!
P Says:
August 22nd, 2008 12:07 AM
THIS IS SOOOO STUPID!!!! STOP HATING TORI AND DEAN. THEY ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE. I THINK ALL OF YOU GUYS NEED A LIFE!!!
linda Says:
August 29th, 2008 12:10 AM
I'm sorry Mary Jo was hurt and that Tori's ex was hurt..but Tori and Dean are Twinflame soulmates...they never ''wanted'' to hurt their ex's...they just fell deeply in love...like me and my husband...this also happend to Tom Hanks. He was married when he fell in love with Rita Wilson...and they have been very happily married for years now! It happens in life. I believe that Mary Jo will find her other half, as Dean has.
Jocelyn Ramirez Says:
September 1st, 2008 6:17 PM
Hello,
I have never been married and don't want to be. I like the single life. But I have been cheated on and yes, it hurts whether there are kids involved or not. Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
But unlike what a lot of you said, I don't agree that the cheater necessarily lacks integrity. Come on people .... when I am faced with a person I am undeniably attracted to, married or not, I'd wanna pull down my pants immediately. It has nothing to do with integrity but has a lot to do with my emotions and yes, being human. Cheating is an age-long cycle that has been happening long before any of us was born and this cycle will continue.
I wasn't a fan of Tori Spelling but I admit that out of curiosity, I have been watching the Tori and Dean show and I am surprised that I actually like the show and them. They do truly appear to be happy and so in love. Isn't that what matters? Yes, I feel sorry for Mary Jo and any person who goes through divorce because of another person involved but isn't there a saying.... if you love something, set it free ...... Besides, having married parents that are truly happy and in-love is much better than having married parents that are unhappy and so NOT in-love but staying together for the sake of the kids. When people stay together for the sake of the children, arguments tend to happen, treating each other badly is evident, cheating happens anyway, etc. That's not the kind of environment children should be immersed in.
Mary Jo needs to move on. I question her motive of contemplating (if she hasn't already)to write a book about it. If she did, she is certainly wanting to capitalize on her bad fate. There is somthing that needs to be kept private and if she writes a book about it, then I would say greed will come to mind.
So for Mary Jo and those of you who has gone this experience, I am sorry. But isn't it time that you all move on? Easier said than done, yes.... but continuously talking about it just delays the healing and getting over it process.
Melanie Says:
September 6th, 2008 8:51 PM
Mary Jo,
Everything happens for a reason and I wish you the best in life. I don't think that it's fair though that everyone is calling Dean a creep or Tori a homewrecker, It wasn't all just Tori and NOBODY IS PERFECT. We are human and we will all commit mistakes but sometimes those mistakes are MEANT to happen, sometimes in life you have to stop worrying about other people and worry about YOURSELF. Yes Tori and Dean commited adultery and I am sure they are aware what they did was bad but they felt in there hearts that they were destined to be together. Personally me I would rather my husband leave me then to just stick around and pretend like we wants to be there when really he is in love with somebody else, I would rather him let me go so I can move on and find somebody else that would make me happy and him do the same as well. Why would you want to be led on? That's only wasting your time. It just wasnt meant to be and you can't hate Dean for what he did. Nobody can sit here and act like they have never made a mistake. Tori and Dean are happy and I think everybody should let them be, I'm sure that you are happy now as well. You have your beautiful children, a healthy life, friends and family but there is no need to hate Dean for what he did or hate Tori because again Tori didnt have a gun to Deans head saying cheat on your wife with me or else I will kill you. He did you a favor and he wants you to be with someone who makes you happy, that someone wasn't him but you will one day find that someone. Everything in life happens for a reason and there WAS NOTHING you could have done to prevent this affair form happening. You could have been Kim Kardashian and the affair would have STILL happened. Shit happens we just have to forgive and forget. There are more fish in the sea. Your fish will soon swim to you.
Sky Diver Says:
September 11th, 2008 1:31 AM
For those of you who think Dean is a creep and Tori is a homewrecker, PUHLEAZZE...... COME DOWN FROM THAT SELF-RIGHTEOUS SOAP BOX YOU ARE ON.
Agreed, they cheated while they were both married to others but can you honestly say you won't do the same if you find someone you are devastatingly attracted to and suddenly you realize that you want to spend your life with this person and this person feels the same way? If you're answer is no, you really are delusional.
Just because a person is married doesn't mean that attraction towards the opposite sex no longer exists. True, they may not act on it, but this is a temporary inaction until they meet someone they just can't resist.
I have been married for 9 yrs. I love my wife dearly and have never cheated on her, yet and as far as I know, she hasn't cheated on me as well. May be because we are deeply in love with each other, or may be because we're afraid of the consequences, or may be, we just haven't found the person worth cheating with. But you will never hear one of us say that it will never happen.
My wife and I talked about the Dean and Tori fiasco. We both feel that they are wonderful people. There are many wonderful people out there, who at the moment of weakness, gave in to temptation. It doesn't change the fact that they are still wonderful people. It just means that they are wonderful people who made mistakes. In the Tori and Dean case, it appears, so far, they do not believe they made a mistake. I congratulate them and wish them well.
Mary Jo and to all of you who think Tori and Dean and the rest of the population who did and do what Tori and Dean did, GET A LIFE!!!!!
Dawn Says:
October 16th, 2008 11:23 PM
Mary Jo,
Get over yourself. Dean found the love of his life and you just feel used. Have you watched their show???? THEY DO REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER !!!! go out and get a life of your own, shut up and move on. Crying won't solve anyone's problems.
Kelly S Says:
October 27th, 2008 11:40 PM
Hello. I have no disrespect for you and I definatly do not think cheating is ok, but would you or anyone for that matter want to be with someone who didnt love them or want to be with them. They are both very much in love and have 2 amazing and beatiful children ( 3 with your son). I hope they do stay together because I see them as 2 people that really are great together. Tori is an amazing PERSON I do not see Tori as an actress but as an everyday person with her loving husband. Good luck to everyone involed... I can not wait for a new book and new season. Thanks.
mike Says:
October 27th, 2008 11:50 PM
GO TORI AND DEAN!! YOU TWO ARE GREAT TOGETHER...I LOVE YOU AND WISH THAT ONE DAY I COULD HAVE THE CHANCE TO MEET YOU. YOUR BOOK WAS AMAZING AND YES I AGREE WITH KELLY. NEW BOOK AND NEW SEASON PLEASE.
Rachel B Says:
November 13th, 2008 4:29 PM
Dean and Tori are true soul mates, they are a far better match than this lady.. there was a big age difference of about 10yrs, seems this cougar could not keep her man.. whats with the adopteds anyways.......... get over it!
Tori rocks !!
wen Says:
November 15th, 2008 2:16 PM
I believe you should leave a marriage if you are unhappy but you should also wait to be with someone else after the papers are signed or at least once the ink has dried.
candace Says:
November 16th, 2008 10:54 PM
Just saw dean and Tori's show where he spent all that time flirting with his suba teacher. Look out Tori. When I saw him all I wanted to do was go "YUCK". I do not know what anyone sees in him. I am sad to hear that he is from Canada,
They called Dean McDermott 'Douchebag Dean' on TMZ! LOL That's what I call him now, because, its so fitting. As for that really bad actress Tori (she needs to align those freakishly froggy eyes btw), they actually suit each other. It really makes me laugh when Douchebag Dean gets all upset with the 'paparazzi' ..and they have a reality show!!! Wtf is UP with that? It should be Retarded Douchebag Dean, Mr. MetroToronto Housing hit the Lotto with Tori! Good luck to you MaryJo, and getting rid of that 3rd rate joker means you are well on your way. Funny enough, I'm from Toronto and had NEVER heard of him until he met Tori, yet I LOVE MaryJo's cooking show...its hilarious! Keep it up. High Five.
TM Says:
January 7th, 2009 3:14 PM
Hi. I totally understand why Mary Jo would feel betrayed. I would be irate! I don't agree with adultry, but I DO agree with love at first-sight and soulmates. Are all of you out there teling me that if you were married (unhappily at that) and you 'bumped in to someone' and fell for them, that YOU would just completely forget about it at stay in your broken marriage?? I don't think so!!! It's terrible what happened to Mary Jo, but it would have been more terrible for the marriage to continue on and get worse each day. Please don't sit there for hours and try to tell me why I am wrong and you are right, because I am being completely legitimate. For all of you who think I'm just heartless, PLEASE do yourself a favor and run out and buy Tori Spelling's book, 'sTori Telling.' Tell me how you feel AFTER you've read the book.
August 10th, 2008 3:37 PM
Omg people need to stop acting like victoms and learn to take care of the themselves. There are millions of single mothers all over the world. My mother was a single mother and she made it on her own because she was taught to be independent and not to depend on anyone else but herself. Thats the problem today we teach our daughters to be co-dependent on our men. Why do you think we have some many girlfriends and wives being physically abused day in and day out? Yes what Dean did was prolly not nice, but look at it this way if he's not happy how is he supposed to make Mary Jo and their 2 kids happy. I think it's better to have atleast one happy home for a child to go to. I speak of this from expiernce I was "the other woman" for 1 1/2 years it was hard becuase we wanted to be together desperatly! But he didn't want to leave his kids. No marriage should make you feel "obligated" to stay. This is why people should not get married just because your going to have baby. It always leads to trouble! I commend Tori and Dean you to are so cute together. The only thing I'm jealous of is that Dean left Mary Jo after 3 days I had to wait 1 1/2. All you dumped B****s need to get over it and move on with all the time you've wasted bashing this happy couple in blogs you could have been looking for someone else. I word to the wise " Jealousy is a sickness b****s you should get help for it"
August 11th, 2008 4:28 PM
I am happy for Tori and Dean, love their show. Life goes and whats done is done. I was cheated on and I thought what hurts us only makes us stronger. I never let that man who hurt me so deeply, see my pain because I got over it.
August 14th, 2008 6:52 PM
Mary Jo...first & foremost...you are a stunning beauty. And I realize when I look at you that horrible things like this can happen to anyone. I too fell deeply in love with someone whom I trusted with my whole heart. He called me 20 times a day to tell me how much he loved me. He did anything for me. He set out again and again to prove how much he loved me. I started noticing after our 3rd year that something was changing. He dumped me in our 5th year together. Right after I was advised to have major surgery. It is 3 1/2 years later and the pain has lessened but the memory and betrayal is still there. I wished I could have handled it with the grace and dignity that you did but I lashed out in anger after family members revealed that a "new" woman showed up shortly after our breakup. Could have been a coincidence except the new girlfriend like telling stories of things they had done when it was obvious to the family that he and I were still a couple. I still receive phone calls from the family of how they really dislike this new woman and what a mistake he made. To end this story, I am engaged to a wonderful man. I know that things will never be like they were with me...I will never again allow myself the comfort of feeling totally safe and trusting. It is a shame what immoral people can strip away from you. But given enough time and healing...we can endure and move forward. I too have watch Tori and Dean's show. I have no respect for either of them. Move on and enjoy the love of another. The fact that you adopted that little baby as a single parent makes you one amazing and classy woman. Someone will find you and thank God for every day of his life with you.
August 15th, 2008 3:22 PM
I know it is horrible that Dean cheated and left Mary but he loves her kids and his two new kids with Tori. Tori and Dean love each other and nobody should be saying how horrible they are. When people are famous their being watched every second of their lives and theres a lot of stress on them. Give them a break. Cheating happens to almost everyone it's not right but learn how to forgive and forget. It doesn't give people the right to cheat but it's their choice and if they want to make a mistake then let then make and learn. Everyone can learn by doing something bad. I feel bad for Mary but she will find somebody that loves her even more. There human beings just stop picking sides. Nobody will get the whole story and truth.
August 19th, 2008 12:02 PM
I agree with Julia Brown. How do you just forget about a child? Why agree to adopt if you're marriage was "shaky"?
Dean really is a slimeball; it's sad that one whole episode of their moranic TV show(which I can't stand to watch anymore)had to be dedicated to "Deans missing Jack".What, were they afraid his assholeness was becoming a little too obvious...?
August 21st, 2008 3:43 PM
You are a very smart good looking women who did not deserve what you got from that dead beat the show he is on is a joke you will be happier now he is gone i am going to buy your book. Eveyone knows he is a joke any way he married one Good Luck
August 22nd, 2008 12:04 AM
Tori and Dean are perfect for each other because they love each other more than anyone can think. They have two cute kids that they love. Mary Jo will find a new man in her life. She should get over it. Tori is beautiful and her and Deans kids will be adorable!! With all the stress going on I think they are doing great. TORI and DEAN are NOT BAD PEOPLE.
Women who say they are bad people say that because they don't have lives of their own. SO stop judging them!
August 22nd, 2008 12:07 AM
THIS IS SOOOO STUPID!!!! STOP HATING TORI AND DEAN. THEY ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE. I THINK ALL OF YOU GUYS NEED A LIFE!!!
August 29th, 2008 12:10 AM
I'm sorry Mary Jo was hurt and that Tori's ex was hurt..but Tori and Dean are Twinflame soulmates...they never ''wanted'' to hurt their ex's...they just fell deeply in love...like me and my husband...this also happend to Tom Hanks. He was married when he fell in love with Rita Wilson...and they have been very happily married for years now! It happens in life. I believe that Mary Jo will find her other half, as Dean has.
September 1st, 2008 6:17 PM
Hello,
I have never been married and don't want to be. I like the single life. But I have been cheated on and yes, it hurts whether there are kids involved or not. Cheating is cheating no matter how you look at it.
But unlike what a lot of you said, I don't agree that the cheater necessarily lacks integrity. Come on people .... when I am faced with a person I am undeniably attracted to, married or not, I'd wanna pull down my pants immediately. It has nothing to do with integrity but has a lot to do with my emotions and yes, being human. Cheating is an age-long cycle that has been happening long before any of us was born and this cycle will continue.
I wasn't a fan of Tori Spelling but I admit that out of curiosity, I have been watching the Tori and Dean show and I am surprised that I actually like the show and them. They do truly appear to be happy and so in love. Isn't that what matters? Yes, I feel sorry for Mary Jo and any person who goes through divorce because of another person involved but isn't there a saying.... if you love something, set it free ...... Besides, having married parents that are truly happy and in-love is much better than having married parents that are unhappy and so NOT in-love but staying together for the sake of the kids. When people stay together for the sake of the children, arguments tend to happen, treating each other badly is evident, cheating happens anyway, etc. That's not the kind of environment children should be immersed in.
Mary Jo needs to move on. I question her motive of contemplating (if she hasn't already)to write a book about it. If she did, she is certainly wanting to capitalize on her bad fate. There is somthing that needs to be kept private and if she writes a book about it, then I would say greed will come to mind.
So for Mary Jo and those of you who has gone this experience, I am sorry. But isn't it time that you all move on? Easier said than done, yes.... but continuously talking about it just delays the healing and getting over it process.
September 6th, 2008 8:51 PM
Mary Jo,
Everything happens for a reason and I wish you the best in life. I don't think that it's fair though that everyone is calling Dean a creep or Tori a homewrecker, It wasn't all just Tori and NOBODY IS PERFECT. We are human and we will all commit mistakes but sometimes those mistakes are MEANT to happen, sometimes in life you have to stop worrying about other people and worry about YOURSELF. Yes Tori and Dean commited adultery and I am sure they are aware what they did was bad but they felt in there hearts that they were destined to be together. Personally me I would rather my husband leave me then to just stick around and pretend like we wants to be there when really he is in love with somebody else, I would rather him let me go so I can move on and find somebody else that would make me happy and him do the same as well. Why would you want to be led on? That's only wasting your time. It just wasnt meant to be and you can't hate Dean for what he did. Nobody can sit here and act like they have never made a mistake. Tori and Dean are happy and I think everybody should let them be, I'm sure that you are happy now as well. You have your beautiful children, a healthy life, friends and family but there is no need to hate Dean for what he did or hate Tori because again Tori didnt have a gun to Deans head saying cheat on your wife with me or else I will kill you. He did you a favor and he wants you to be with someone who makes you happy, that someone wasn't him but you will one day find that someone. Everything in life happens for a reason and there WAS NOTHING you could have done to prevent this affair form happening. You could have been Kim Kardashian and the affair would have STILL happened. Shit happens we just have to forgive and forget. There are more fish in the sea. Your fish will soon swim to you.
September 11th, 2008 1:31 AM
For those of you who think Dean is a creep and Tori is a homewrecker, PUHLEAZZE...... COME DOWN FROM THAT SELF-RIGHTEOUS SOAP BOX YOU ARE ON.
Agreed, they cheated while they were both married to others but can you honestly say you won't do the same if you find someone you are devastatingly attracted to and suddenly you realize that you want to spend your life with this person and this person feels the same way? If you're answer is no, you really are delusional.
Just because a person is married doesn't mean that attraction towards the opposite sex no longer exists. True, they may not act on it, but this is a temporary inaction until they meet someone they just can't resist.
I have been married for 9 yrs. I love my wife dearly and have never cheated on her, yet and as far as I know, she hasn't cheated on me as well. May be because we are deeply in love with each other, or may be because we're afraid of the consequences, or may be, we just haven't found the person worth cheating with. But you will never hear one of us say that it will never happen.
My wife and I talked about the Dean and Tori fiasco. We both feel that they are wonderful people. There are many wonderful people out there, who at the moment of weakness, gave in to temptation. It doesn't change the fact that they are still wonderful people. It just means that they are wonderful people who made mistakes. In the Tori and Dean case, it appears, so far, they do not believe they made a mistake. I congratulate them and wish them well.
Mary Jo and to all of you who think Tori and Dean and the rest of the population who did and do what Tori and Dean did, GET A LIFE!!!!!
October 16th, 2008 11:23 PM
Mary Jo,
Get over yourself. Dean found the love of his life and you just feel used. Have you watched their show???? THEY DO REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER !!!! go out and get a life of your own, shut up and move on. Crying won't solve anyone's problems.
October 27th, 2008 11:40 PM
Hello. I have no disrespect for you and I definatly do not think cheating is ok, but would you or anyone for that matter want to be with someone who didnt love them or want to be with them. They are both very much in love and have 2 amazing and beatiful children ( 3 with your son). I hope they do stay together because I see them as 2 people that really are great together. Tori is an amazing PERSON I do not see Tori as an actress but as an everyday person with her loving husband. Good luck to everyone involed... I can not wait for a new book and new season. Thanks.
October 27th, 2008 11:50 PM
GO TORI AND DEAN!! YOU TWO ARE GREAT TOGETHER...I LOVE YOU AND WISH THAT ONE DAY I COULD HAVE THE CHANCE TO MEET YOU. YOUR BOOK WAS AMAZING AND YES I AGREE WITH KELLY. NEW BOOK AND NEW SEASON PLEASE.
November 13th, 2008 4:29 PM
Dean and Tori are true soul mates, they are a far better match than this lady.. there was a big age difference of about 10yrs, seems this cougar could not keep her man.. whats with the adopteds anyways.......... get over it!
Tori rocks !!
November 15th, 2008 2:16 PM
I believe you should leave a marriage if you are unhappy but you should also wait to be with someone else after the papers are signed or at least once the ink has dried.
November 16th, 2008 10:54 PM
Just saw dean and Tori's show where he spent all that time flirting with his suba teacher. Look out Tori. When I saw him all I wanted to do was go "YUCK". I do not know what anyone sees in him. I am sad to hear that he is from Canada,
November 30th, 2008 2:32 AM
They called Dean McDermott 'Douchebag Dean' on TMZ! LOL That's what I call him now, because, its so fitting. As for that really bad actress Tori (she needs to align those freakishly froggy eyes btw), they actually suit each other. It really makes me laugh when Douchebag Dean gets all upset with the 'paparazzi' ..and they have a reality show!!! Wtf is UP with that? It should be Retarded Douchebag Dean, Mr. MetroToronto Housing hit the Lotto with Tori! Good luck to you MaryJo, and getting rid of that 3rd rate joker means you are well on your way. Funny enough, I'm from Toronto and had NEVER heard of him until he met Tori, yet I LOVE MaryJo's cooking show...its hilarious! Keep it up. High Five.
January 7th, 2009 3:14 PM
Hi. I totally understand why Mary Jo would feel betrayed. I would be irate! I don't agree with adultry, but I DO agree with love at first-sight and soulmates. Are all of you out there teling me that if you were married (unhappily at that) and you 'bumped in to someone' and fell for them, that YOU would just completely forget about it at stay in your broken marriage?? I don't think so!!! It's terrible what happened to Mary Jo, but it would have been more terrible for the marriage to continue on and get worse each day. Please don't sit there for hours and try to tell me why I am wrong and you are right, because I am being completely legitimate. For all of you who think I'm just heartless, PLEASE do yourself a favor and run out and buy Tori Spelling's book, 'sTori Telling.' Tell me how you feel AFTER you've read the book.