I had no idea who Dean McDermott was until the Tori spelling incident. Dean looks like a shallow, selfish guy--his face and set of features shows it. He resembles a rat. I doubt he truly thinks that Tori is his soulmate. He is only with her for the money and to promote his career. He s a male gold digger, a prostitute!
AJ Says:
June 29th, 2008 6:42 PM
Oh, yeah. One more thing...Mary Jo, you are MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL than Tori anyday, anytime! Age is not even an issue here.
Lisa Says:
June 30th, 2008 3:12 PM
Mary Jo;
Tori and Dean are nauseating and I'm not quite sure why they continue to generate so much hype. They're both spoiled and indulgent. Whenver the next D-list couple emerge for their 15 minutes of fame/whoredom , Gory and Spleen will become a faded memory in crap televison history. You're prettier, smarter and more talented than this silly pair. Good luck to you.
Amanda Says:
June 30th, 2008 3:24 PM
I can relate to you in more ways then one. My husband left me when I was six months pregnant. He had an affair and the "other woman" had gotten pregnant too. Yes our sons are five months apart and to make matters worse they named that child one letter off of what my sons name is. Oh they also got married before our divorce was finalized. Yes some men are just creeps, since I terminated his rights we don't have to deal with drama which is a major factor in the healing process. I have good days and I still have bad days that's just human. Just remember when you're starting to feel sick over the situation to look into your children's eyes, they are the ones that truely matter.
Monica Pino Says:
June 30th, 2008 3:49 PM
Dear Mary Jo,
Tori and Dean are a couple of clowns, espeacially Dean for being such a creep. Your life should be a lot better without a creep like that :)
Good Luck
Jennifer Says:
June 30th, 2008 3:59 PM
MaryJo,
I really feel for you, and admire you greatly for having to deal with all this nonsense that Tori & Dean dished out towards you. I just think that Tori & Dean are made for each other, they both think that they are the best actors, but in reality they are D-list and nobody really cares to watch or hear them. They are old, not very smart and they seem very lazy. You are the opposite of that and you know how to cook. You are very classy, beautiful and intelligent. I'm glad that your not with Dean anymore and just remember...don't look for love from another man, let it come to you...and yet still be very cautious. Continue to be strong for your children and your children will know that you are the best mom for not behaving the way Dean did. Take care of yourself and my prayers go out to you. There is a long road ahead but it will gleam with gorgeous sunlight. Love you.
BARBARA Says:
June 30th, 2008 7:40 PM
I too like many others on here have never heard of your ex til the show on tv. I looked this site up to see what you looked like and girl you have no problems to worry about. You are a very beautiful woman and im sure a great mom. That tori is ugly as homemade sin which i know looks arent everything but something better will come along for you.
alexandra Says:
June 30th, 2008 8:39 PM
yal are a bunch of haters!! tori and dean are the best. and there son liam is super cute and im pretty sure there daughter stella is gona be a doll:) dont be talkin trash if you dont even know tori and dean. they seem like really great people. yeahh so what they were married and had an affair. who cares?? ohh well. dangg jus deal with it. i totally agree with lisa
Kendra Says:
July 1st, 2008 10:56 AM
Maybe you should have given him a little more love and he wouldn't have went looking. Spouses don't go looking if they are happy at home. And why would you adopt if you can have children. Sounds like you are too into yourself and didn't want to disgrace your body. Tori and Dean are wonderful and are awesome parents maybe you should take a lesson from them and be a little classier and less trash talking!!
Erin Miles Says:
July 2nd, 2008 7:29 PM
I think in the end the impact of stealing another women's husband eats at her conscious. I watched her on one of their shows commenting about her fear of him leaving her for a younger and toner woman. I think that she more than likely didn't think of the other woman until now when she felt the tinge of jealousy at the possibility of being the other woman. Problem is, the fear of once a cheater always a cheater will always be there. Karma its a kick in the ass. At least Mary Jo can live with a peaceful mind while Tori never will.
Sheila Says:
July 2nd, 2008 8:21 PM
I like Tori & Dean and think they are great people. They made some bad choices, but that doesn't make them bad people. I find Tori hilarious and Dean very sweet.
d Says:
July 2nd, 2008 10:48 PM
Let those two D-listers have each other, they are both disgusting on the inside AND outside, and they are not together for the right reasons. He's probably going to leave Tori for that scuba instructor anyway ;)
Super Z Says:
July 4th, 2008 1:22 PM
Tori and Dean did things ALMOST right. They fessed up to the relationship with their partners right away and moved on. Would it have been better to wait until the divorce(s) were finalized? Yes, but life isn't always that tidy.
Jana Says:
July 6th, 2008 8:48 PM
I agree with super z.
Laura Says:
July 11th, 2008 6:30 PM
My take on this situation after watching T&D's shows and read Tori's book......is that they truly do love each other. I had my husband of 10 years (together for 16 years) and 3 children later.....leave me for a younger woman and is now married to her with 2 kids. I was in your boat, so I don't want anyone here to think I don't know what it feels like to be dumped by your longtime spouse. My ex and his new wife hate each other, but remain married...so I laugh at their situation and think about how great of a husband I have now. With Mary Jo, I feel terribly for her and her children. In life however, we sometimes do meet a "soul mate" and while I think adultery sucks.....they didn't commit adultery just to have a fling. It is apparent to me that they just adore one another. Dean seems like a very decent, loving husband and father. Tori the same. They just met each other at "inopportune" times in their lives. They admit what they did was wrong, but they had to follow their hearts. My ex followed his "you know what", not his heart. Now he is paying the price for that bad move. I don't think Dean is going to do that to Tori or vice versa. That is my two cents from observing the situation.
Islian Says:
July 12th, 2008 4:21 PM
I just watched the Tori and Dean TV episode where Dean farts while he and Tori are in bed - the three loudest farts I have ever heard - and laughed. Tori was not phased.
He seems so classless, and Mary Jo, looking back, I hope you feel well rid of him.
Yanet Lopez Says:
July 15th, 2008 5:58 PM
Dear Mary Jo,
I became the single mother of an 8 month old baby after having a similar situation to yours. I can tell you that I thank GOD for what I've been through (heart ache and all). It's made me the person that I am today. Now a mother of two beautiful kids, I am happily married and VERY HAPPILY DIVORCED. Let someone else deal with that heart ache.
I watched one of their episodes and Tori couldn't have said it better. She told him that she will always wonder when the next TORI will come and steel him from her. That is something that they will have to deal with forever. That relationship will never have full trust or peace of mind.
Best of luck to you and the kids. God Bless.
Jessica Says:
July 19th, 2008 1:39 PM
Thanks for the split.. I just started watching Tori and Dean and I am hooked.. Its hilarious. If their relationship does not last oh well..At least I had a good laugh.
Grace Says:
July 19th, 2008 6:20 PM
I didn't know who Dean M was before this whole thing surfaced in the tabloids. I don't know any of their relationships well enough to judge them. But to be involved with someone while they are married, especially with children, is VERY disturbing. I had to chuckled when I insecure Tori was about Dean's Scuba instructor. It will ALWAYS be in the back of her mind. By the way, there is nothing honorable about having sex on the 1st date. Really, what is one's moral in the 21th century?? I feel for Mary Jo and the children. I will think twice when it comes to Tori's merchandise or show from now on. Btw, Mary Jo looks very sophisticated, intelligent and classy. THere goes something that money can't buy!!
deese Says:
July 21st, 2008 10:03 PM
Just on the superficial level of beauty which it seems is a basic criteria in Hollywood, you are 500% more beautiful. She is younger, that is true, and that in Hollywood terms that is another basic criteria but hey, this is a no brainer, you have it all over her, she is so fake, fake, fake, your ex is too, they are so phoney and icky together, discussing details of their sex life on TV, how utterly repulsive they are...Also, you have to wonder, their whole relatonship is based on this passionate love, nothing could stand in its way, soul mates, etc. -- what happens to these 2 bozos when the bloom fades and they still have to maintain the pretense of passionate, crazy love -- what an effort this must be and how boring. . He is such a slimeball, I agree with other writers that you are well rid of him, good riddance to bad rubbish.
Jack Says:
July 22nd, 2008 11:08 PM
Hi,
Just a small town guy, but Tori and Dean are after what feels good for the moment. You are much more attractive and will find someone better than a slime ball like Dean. Any person who leaves his children and wife like he did is slime. Good luck!!!
Thanks,
Jack
Knox, Indiana
Julia Brown Says:
July 26th, 2008 9:59 PM
What did Dean mean recently when he said he missed Jack? What about the little girl? He misses his son. He wants his son Jack to come to California to see him and spend time with him. What about the girl? He has 2 children with Mary Jo. He got divorced and forgot a child? That is disturbing. That poor little girl.
Jasmine Says:
July 30th, 2008 3:55 AM
Well I am a X-FAN of Tori and Dean INNLUST whoops inn luv.
I had no idea Dean a scum bucket. I seen on the show where he was flirting with the scuba teacher. Then i kinda thought he was a poser. He will do to her what he did to you. But at least you have a wonderful life with your kids and a real job and you dont have to support a dead beat man like Tori does. Not to mention your ass would make Tori a sunday face. SHE IS UGLY NOT CUTE NOT FUNNY NOT NOTHING. Her own mother see's how she is and will not give her the time of day. Now that is sad. Dean is using her like all her poser friends. Her pot head friend is even better looking than her. They call the paps on themselfs so they will look like celbs when they go out. She is lazy and has no talent. The only good that come from her is her kids Liam is a cute sweet lil baby. I hope his daddy does him better than he did his practic kids Jack and the lil girl he walked out on.They both need to grow up she is like 35 and still leaning on her dads name.90210 is over thank gosh just remember she was the fugly one on the show.
Atrorment Says:
August 2nd, 2008 6:00 PM
Brilliant!
JPS Says:
August 8th, 2008 9:41 PM
You are super hot....way hotter than Tori...way, way hotter! Dean just went to her to further his career. I'm sure they'll be divorced in 2-3 more years.
June 29th, 2008 6:38 PM
I had no idea who Dean McDermott was until the Tori spelling incident. Dean looks like a shallow, selfish guy--his face and set of features shows it. He resembles a rat. I doubt he truly thinks that Tori is his soulmate. He is only with her for the money and to promote his career. He s a male gold digger, a prostitute!
June 29th, 2008 6:42 PM
Oh, yeah. One more thing...Mary Jo, you are MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL than Tori anyday, anytime! Age is not even an issue here.
June 30th, 2008 3:12 PM
Mary Jo;
Tori and Dean are nauseating and I'm not quite sure why they continue to generate so much hype. They're both spoiled and indulgent. Whenver the next D-list couple emerge for their 15 minutes of fame/whoredom , Gory and Spleen will become a faded memory in crap televison history. You're prettier, smarter and more talented than this silly pair. Good luck to you.
June 30th, 2008 3:24 PM
I can relate to you in more ways then one. My husband left me when I was six months pregnant. He had an affair and the "other woman" had gotten pregnant too. Yes our sons are five months apart and to make matters worse they named that child one letter off of what my sons name is. Oh they also got married before our divorce was finalized. Yes some men are just creeps, since I terminated his rights we don't have to deal with drama which is a major factor in the healing process. I have good days and I still have bad days that's just human. Just remember when you're starting to feel sick over the situation to look into your children's eyes, they are the ones that truely matter.
June 30th, 2008 3:49 PM
Dear Mary Jo,
Tori and Dean are a couple of clowns, espeacially Dean for being such a creep. Your life should be a lot better without a creep like that :)
Good Luck
June 30th, 2008 3:59 PM
MaryJo,
I really feel for you, and admire you greatly for having to deal with all this nonsense that Tori & Dean dished out towards you. I just think that Tori & Dean are made for each other, they both think that they are the best actors, but in reality they are D-list and nobody really cares to watch or hear them. They are old, not very smart and they seem very lazy. You are the opposite of that and you know how to cook. You are very classy, beautiful and intelligent. I'm glad that your not with Dean anymore and just remember...don't look for love from another man, let it come to you...and yet still be very cautious. Continue to be strong for your children and your children will know that you are the best mom for not behaving the way Dean did. Take care of yourself and my prayers go out to you. There is a long road ahead but it will gleam with gorgeous sunlight. Love you.
June 30th, 2008 7:40 PM
I too like many others on here have never heard of your ex til the show on tv. I looked this site up to see what you looked like and girl you have no problems to worry about. You are a very beautiful woman and im sure a great mom. That tori is ugly as homemade sin which i know looks arent everything but something better will come along for you.
June 30th, 2008 8:39 PM
yal are a bunch of haters!! tori and dean are the best. and there son liam is super cute and im pretty sure there daughter stella is gona be a doll:) dont be talkin trash if you dont even know tori and dean. they seem like really great people. yeahh so what they were married and had an affair. who cares?? ohh well. dangg jus deal with it. i totally agree with lisa
July 1st, 2008 10:56 AM
Maybe you should have given him a little more love and he wouldn't have went looking. Spouses don't go looking if they are happy at home. And why would you adopt if you can have children. Sounds like you are too into yourself and didn't want to disgrace your body. Tori and Dean are wonderful and are awesome parents maybe you should take a lesson from them and be a little classier and less trash talking!!
July 2nd, 2008 7:29 PM
I think in the end the impact of stealing another women's husband eats at her conscious. I watched her on one of their shows commenting about her fear of him leaving her for a younger and toner woman. I think that she more than likely didn't think of the other woman until now when she felt the tinge of jealousy at the possibility of being the other woman. Problem is, the fear of once a cheater always a cheater will always be there. Karma its a kick in the ass. At least Mary Jo can live with a peaceful mind while Tori never will.
July 2nd, 2008 8:21 PM
I like Tori & Dean and think they are great people. They made some bad choices, but that doesn't make them bad people. I find Tori hilarious and Dean very sweet.
July 2nd, 2008 10:48 PM
Let those two D-listers have each other, they are both disgusting on the inside AND outside, and they are not together for the right reasons. He's probably going to leave Tori for that scuba instructor anyway ;)
July 4th, 2008 1:22 PM
Tori and Dean did things ALMOST right. They fessed up to the relationship with their partners right away and moved on. Would it have been better to wait until the divorce(s) were finalized? Yes, but life isn't always that tidy.
July 6th, 2008 8:48 PM
I agree with super z.
July 11th, 2008 6:30 PM
My take on this situation after watching T&D's shows and read Tori's book......is that they truly do love each other. I had my husband of 10 years (together for 16 years) and 3 children later.....leave me for a younger woman and is now married to her with 2 kids. I was in your boat, so I don't want anyone here to think I don't know what it feels like to be dumped by your longtime spouse. My ex and his new wife hate each other, but remain married...so I laugh at their situation and think about how great of a husband I have now. With Mary Jo, I feel terribly for her and her children. In life however, we sometimes do meet a "soul mate" and while I think adultery sucks.....they didn't commit adultery just to have a fling. It is apparent to me that they just adore one another. Dean seems like a very decent, loving husband and father. Tori the same. They just met each other at "inopportune" times in their lives. They admit what they did was wrong, but they had to follow their hearts. My ex followed his "you know what", not his heart. Now he is paying the price for that bad move. I don't think Dean is going to do that to Tori or vice versa. That is my two cents from observing the situation.
July 12th, 2008 4:21 PM
I just watched the Tori and Dean TV episode where Dean farts while he and Tori are in bed - the three loudest farts I have ever heard - and laughed. Tori was not phased.
He seems so classless, and Mary Jo, looking back, I hope you feel well rid of him.
July 15th, 2008 5:58 PM
Dear Mary Jo,
I became the single mother of an 8 month old baby after having a similar situation to yours. I can tell you that I thank GOD for what I've been through (heart ache and all). It's made me the person that I am today. Now a mother of two beautiful kids, I am happily married and VERY HAPPILY DIVORCED. Let someone else deal with that heart ache.
I watched one of their episodes and Tori couldn't have said it better. She told him that she will always wonder when the next TORI will come and steel him from her. That is something that they will have to deal with forever. That relationship will never have full trust or peace of mind.
Best of luck to you and the kids. God Bless.
July 19th, 2008 1:39 PM
Thanks for the split.. I just started watching Tori and Dean and I am hooked.. Its hilarious. If their relationship does not last oh well..At least I had a good laugh.
July 19th, 2008 6:20 PM
I didn't know who Dean M was before this whole thing surfaced in the tabloids. I don't know any of their relationships well enough to judge them. But to be involved with someone while they are married, especially with children, is VERY disturbing. I had to chuckled when I insecure Tori was about Dean's Scuba instructor. It will ALWAYS be in the back of her mind. By the way, there is nothing honorable about having sex on the 1st date. Really, what is one's moral in the 21th century?? I feel for Mary Jo and the children. I will think twice when it comes to Tori's merchandise or show from now on. Btw, Mary Jo looks very sophisticated, intelligent and classy. THere goes something that money can't buy!!
July 21st, 2008 10:03 PM
Just on the superficial level of beauty which it seems is a basic criteria in Hollywood, you are 500% more beautiful. She is younger, that is true, and that in Hollywood terms that is another basic criteria but hey, this is a no brainer, you have it all over her, she is so fake, fake, fake, your ex is too, they are so phoney and icky together, discussing details of their sex life on TV, how utterly repulsive they are...Also, you have to wonder, their whole relatonship is based on this passionate love, nothing could stand in its way, soul mates, etc. -- what happens to these 2 bozos when the bloom fades and they still have to maintain the pretense of passionate, crazy love -- what an effort this must be and how boring. . He is such a slimeball, I agree with other writers that you are well rid of him, good riddance to bad rubbish.
July 22nd, 2008 11:08 PM
Hi,
Just a small town guy, but Tori and Dean are after what feels good for the moment. You are much more attractive and will find someone better than a slime ball like Dean. Any person who leaves his children and wife like he did is slime. Good luck!!!
Thanks,
Jack
Knox, Indiana
July 26th, 2008 9:59 PM
What did Dean mean recently when he said he missed Jack? What about the little girl? He misses his son. He wants his son Jack to come to California to see him and spend time with him. What about the girl? He has 2 children with Mary Jo. He got divorced and forgot a child? That is disturbing. That poor little girl.
July 30th, 2008 3:55 AM
Well I am a X-FAN of Tori and Dean INNLUST whoops inn luv.
I had no idea Dean a scum bucket. I seen on the show where he was flirting with the scuba teacher. Then i kinda thought he was a poser. He will do to her what he did to you. But at least you have a wonderful life with your kids and a real job and you dont have to support a dead beat man like Tori does. Not to mention your ass would make Tori a sunday face. SHE IS UGLY NOT CUTE NOT FUNNY NOT NOTHING. Her own mother see's how she is and will not give her the time of day. Now that is sad. Dean is using her like all her poser friends. Her pot head friend is even better looking than her. They call the paps on themselfs so they will look like celbs when they go out. She is lazy and has no talent. The only good that come from her is her kids Liam is a cute sweet lil baby. I hope his daddy does him better than he did his practic kids Jack and the lil girl he walked out on.They both need to grow up she is like 35 and still leaning on her dads name.90210 is over thank gosh just remember she was the fugly one on the show.
August 2nd, 2008 6:00 PM
Brilliant!
August 8th, 2008 9:41 PM
You are super hot....way hotter than Tori...way, way hotter! Dean just went to her to further his career. I'm sure they'll be divorced in 2-3 more years.