Dinner with Bobby Brown and her kids is one thing.

But don't think Whitney Houston will always love her ex-husband. After all, a diva just wants to dance with somebody ... that is best known for his sex tape exploits.

Quieting rumors that her no holds barred, every position imaginable, sexual romp romance with Ray J is finished, Whitney is seen here giving Brandy's brother a very clear message: Call me and I'll make you forget all about Kim Kardashian nude.

We hope Ray J is making the most of his time in the spotlight. If talk of a Sopie Anderton sex tape prove true, his exploits on camera may soon be forgotten about faster than Tami Gosnell on American Idol.

Oh yes, we went there.